I just finished watching one of my favorite shows on the FOOD NETWORK – The Next Food Network Star. I watched as one of the contestants, Mary Beth Albright (a food writer from Washington DC), was voted off by the selection committee. She made a statement through her tears as she left the studio that made me think. She said, “A lot of people…….don’t get an opportunity like the one I’ve had. How can I be anything but grateful?“.
I thought about gratitude, as I neared the end of a tough week. It was one of those weeks where I felt a general sense of uneasiness and tension about little things that weren’t going as planned. As a result, my body felt weak and exhausted. (Remember the effects of feeding the Mind-Body loop? You can feed it in a positive, as well as negative way!) The negative cycle can literally drown you unless you swim hard to the top, or, in my case, have someone that pulls you out . Today, that person was my mother. She reminded me to feel grateful. She reminded me of all the little things were going right. There were hundreds of them. The most amazing thing was that, after I got off the phone with her, I had a complete change in attitude. All of a sudden, my energy shifted and the world looked brighter. Just like Mary Beth, I thought, “How could I be anything but grateful?”
As I fed my mind positive thoughts, my body ate them up and I felt energized. I went for a long run and felt gratitude for my health. I caught up with friends and felt gratitude for the people in my life. I cooked a delicious meal and felt gratitude for the beautiful food on my plate. As I continued to focus on what was good, I found more things to be grateful for. That’s the gift we receive when we feed our minds with appreciation.
Yes, we all have issues in our lives that stump us and slow us down, and they are REAL. But also remember that what we focus on, multiplies. Problems escalate when we keep hitting the RE-PLAY button in our brains – the negative feedback loop. Though we may intuitively recognize the importance of feeling gratitude in our day to day lives, sometimes it’s just too hard to hit the STOP button. In those cases, create an outlet or lean on the people that can remind you of your strengths. Even a little dose of positivity can create a shift in vibration.
So maybe Mary Beth Albright won’t be the Next Food Network Star. And perhaps some might think she lost the competition. But I think that in her own heart she feels she has won. Now that’s something to be grateful for!
Deepali’s Piece of Wellness: What can you do to create a feeling of gratitude during rocky times? Are there books, rituals, or people you can lean on to remind you to focus on what is good?
This post spoke to me. I’ve been telling myself, anyone can be happy when things are to their liking.
Our character shows when we deal constructively with problems or events which cause us pain.
I too want to live being grateful.
Very true, Sharon! True character and ability to be grateful is really tested through our adversities in life. We all have this choice through every experience. Thanks for sharing! -Deepali